When women are stimulating each other sexually while both completely nude, and things are going in and out of things, I'd like to think that's lesbian fucking.
But that definition assumes that women as a whole consider the vagina the main sex organ, when many actually would consider the clitoris to be more important.
That's indicative of a very phallocentric view: you (seemingly) privilege the standard dichotomy of male/female above the other possibilities, and so sex must involve a penis and/or penetration.
For my standard view, yes! But I will allow two people to define what sex means to them. I realize a lack of vocabular standardization in this area (or any area for that matter) can lead to confusion that others may deem "unnecessary". However, I feel that we need to allow our language to evolve enough that in 500 years time pompous English majors will have ancient spellings and syntaxes with which to lord over their less-educated contemporaries.
Then there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you allow for multiple definitions.
And I would much rather see English not evolve that much at all so that our old texts don't lose their accessibility for future audiences. But I know that it will.
Well, my definition of sex isn't entirely true. I consider oral sex to be sex, too. How do I feel about manual sex? I don't consider that sex. I think it's sexual, but not sex. I consider the following things sex:
Vaginal penetration with a penis
Vaginal penetration with a strapon
Any vaginal penetration that involves pelvic thrusts
Any anal penetration that involves pelvic thrusts
Blow jobs on an actual penis
Cunnilingus on an actual vagina
Breast fucking while both parties are totally nude
Mutual masturbation followed by atleast one (1) orgasm, provided that the masturbation session included one of the following:
Heavy and intense kissing
Heavy and intense eye contact fueled by either lust of love
Heavy and intense nipple-sucking/neck biting/asshole fingering
The things I consider sexual but not sex:
Fellatio performed on a strap on
Penetration with a hand-operated dildo (either vibratory or not)
Cunnilingus performed on one of those weird latex vagina molds
One-way masturbation, whether orgasm follows or not
One-way masturbation followed by one-way masturbation (the masturbation needs to be mutual and cotemporal for it to be considered sex)
Ass licking, whether it results in an orgasm or not
Breast fucking while one or more parties has one or more articles of clothing on
FURTHERMORE: When describing virginity, specification needs to be given to exactly what you've done, since "virginity" has it's own meaning to everybody based pretty much on how much your morals conflict with your carnal, but natural, desires. The whole "anal sex means I'm still a virgin" thing could be completely avoided if the person asking about said virginities would instead ask, "Have you ever engaged in ACTIVITY X."
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Accurate?
And I would much rather see English not evolve that much at all so that our old texts don't lose their accessibility for future audiences. But I know that it will.
The things I consider sexual but not sex:
FURTHERMORE: When describing virginity, specification needs to be given to exactly what you've done, since "virginity" has it's own meaning to everybody based pretty much on how much your morals conflict with your carnal, but natural, desires. The whole "anal sex means I'm still a virgin" thing could be completely avoided if the person asking about said virginities would instead ask, "Have you ever engaged in ACTIVITY X."
How does everybody else feel?
Interesting, though, that vibrator penetration doesn't count, but a strapon does. Hmm.
With your hands on your hips... You bring your knees in ti-ah-ight!
*laughs*
However,
I'm very disappointed in all of you. Nobody made any connection here? Really?
I don't get it.
:tmyk:
I don't think I have a penis... *checks*
Nope.