I'm Sooo in love, and I NEED YOUR ADVICE. Girly Thread, Huh?
This woman is absolutely gorgeous.
Like for reals.
I love her.
BACK OFF, JOHN!
I was kidding.
Haha.
Let's stop hitting the "enter" key, and get serious.
Ah, much better. Okay, this is Ellie, and i've known here for two years. She just turned 16, (Age difference ftw!) and I really want her to be mine. Like, I love her very much. I have her IM, and her phone number, and all that stuff. I also talk to her a lot, so we're pretty godd friends. Problem is, she lives a town over, so I never get to see her, cept for maybe once a year
. I don't know if I have the balls to ask her to meet me somewhere. I tried to get together with her one time, but we couldn't find each other -_-. We've slow danced, and sort-of kissed too. I need to know, do I have a shot at her? She just broke up with her boyfriend too. I'd like to hear some advice. If you don't care, *cough*MJC*cough*, don't reply. For those of you who do, help here?
Like for reals.
I love her.
BACK OFF, JOHN!
I was kidding.
Haha.
Let's stop hitting the "enter" key, and get serious.
Ah, much better. Okay, this is Ellie, and i've known here for two years. She just turned 16, (Age difference ftw!) and I really want her to be mine. Like, I love her very much. I have her IM, and her phone number, and all that stuff. I also talk to her a lot, so we're pretty godd friends. Problem is, she lives a town over, so I never get to see her, cept for maybe once a year
. I don't know if I have the balls to ask her to meet me somewhere. I tried to get together with her one time, but we couldn't find each other -_-. We've slow danced, and sort-of kissed too. I need to know, do I have a shot at her? She just broke up with her boyfriend too. I'd like to hear some advice. If you don't care, *cough*MJC*cough*, don't reply. For those of you who do, help here?
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Incidentally, the fact that she's broken up with her boyfriend should not be seen as a great opportunity. There is a reason that 'rebound' relationships are a bit of a cliche. Basically, if a relationship is meant to be, your beloved wants YOU in her life regardless of circumstances.
Well, there's your first problem.
Just turned 14.
Seriously, think of the future, not the present. THEREFORE, go for it.
People get caught up with titles, especially at such a young age, when they're very unecessary! Is she a girl? Is she your friend? Well then she's your girlfriend!
Location situation? Public transportation! If you like her that much, you'll walk 500 miles to see her.
Already talk to her and are good friends? Sorta kissed? Hah, you've got this. Just do what comes naturally. You're much more adept at this than I was at your age...or am right now...
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EDIT OF: I'm laughing right now? DON'T YOU SEE MY EMOTE ABOVE!?
I'm going to speak out of turn here and note that titles can actually be very important because they define certain boundaries. When a title is involved, everyone is clear about the nature of the relationship. Therefore, there is no gray area about whether romance is involved, or whether one party has the right to be pissed if the other is seen at the malt shoppe holding hands with Johnny Football Hero. People who are simply undefined makeout buddies often fall out over a mismatch of implied expectations.
There is a humorous 90's alternative reference in there!
If you listen to any advice at all, Agentcel, listen to this. I learned this one firsthand.
If she's 16, can she drive? Sure, some kids may make fun of you for your girlfriend coming to pick you up, but then you can probably ask them if they're dating good looking older women. (I say you can say that from your perspective. I make no claims as to her being good looking or not, because I'm 22 and it could make me a pedo if I say it)
Go ahead and try. What's the worse that can happen? She says no? If she lives in the next town over, it's not like you'll see her every day and have it be awkward.
I didn't start dating until I was 19, and it sucked until then. This is a good age for you to start trying to find what you want, because learning that takes years and years.
Go for it and tell us how it goes!
Did I ever tell you guys about the time I gave a car to my "undefined relationship" person?
Agentcel, direct is good. This was a lot better than just pining awkwardly over it for the next three months.
Sumbitch. Ah, I tried. This exactly what I expected, too. Damn.
At least I made DAMN PIMPIN' Myspace page in the process. With Zelda musics!
EDIT OF: Oops, my page is private. Better fix that.
ANOTHER EDIT: What the heck?! >.> How do I "unprivatize" it?
You=unnecessarily depressing
Yeah, its not exactly what you're after, here, but its a damned nice alternative after a chick turns you down.
You, sire, are so, SO going to regret that.
Enjoy whatever's left of your social life, that's society for ya!
Least I only have to drive ~250 miles this time. ^^
So, have faith, relationships aren't everything, especially when you're young. I didn't get into my first dating relationship until I got into college.
The main thing to remember is that every prospective relationship carries with it the potential danger of hurt feelings and heartbreak, it's a fact of life. You have to decide whether or not to take that risk.
It's worth it.
EDIT: Hamelin always has been and always will be the good, younger version of me. The one unblemished and full of light-side points. You should probably listen to him if you value your soul.
However, if you DONT value your soul, you should tag that fugly girl who wants you, before she changes her mind. And she will change her mind. They all do.
Also, do we get to hear the story of the not-exactly-girlfriend that you gave a car to, or do we merely get to marvel at the fact that it happened?
Um, but on a more serious note. While I find the notion of Agentcel rating girls against a pretty vs. not pretty standard a little bit offensive, you can't make yourself like a person that you don't like. So if you don't like the girl who likes you, obviously you shouldn't, uh, 'tag' her just for the sake of 'tagging'.
Dude, he's 14. He shouldn't be 'tagging' anyone.
The crazy younger Khan.